Found This While Surfing The net... Read lah... TQ..

- Never allow your partner or yourself to denigrate the other. (denigrate means, minimize: cause to seem less serious; play down)
- You must have personal respect and consideration for yourself. (I do and always do)
- Everyone deserves respect and love, but you can't expect to get it unless you give it. (This is true..)
- If you allow your partner to disparage you, expect to hear other damaging words.
- Whatever you are willing to accept is exactly what you're going to get.
- Be compassionate, understanding, forgiving and merciful.
Patience, kindness, consideration and thoughtfulness can never be in short demand.
- Never let a person use names or words to hurt or degrade you or your partner.
- Vow to protect yourself from thoughtless, rude, mean or punishing behavior.
- If destructive words are being used, for whatever the reason, it must Stop. If not, a relationship can't survive.
- Once you've reacted you can then be proactive.
- A controlled mouth shows a controlled mind. (Agree with this, although sometimes i can't control my mouth)
- Use words for empowerment, encouragement and positive recognition.
- Ask for respect. Quietly demand it.
- If your lover, partner, parent or friend can't exhibit self control over their mouth, seriously consider looking elsewhere for a relationship.
- Pick an appropriate the time to discuss important issues.
- This is particularly true if there is an emotional charge where feelings of anger or vexation need to be vented.
- NEVER enter into discussion of personal, private or intimate issues in public.
- Wait until you have privacy and the time to tackle issues.
- If a person makes a mistake, or does something that disappoints or angers you, belittlement or badmouthing them in front of others will only lead to further resentment, anger and frustration.
- Trying to discuss things in bed just before sleep, or while getting ready for bed is simply thoughtless, inconsiderate and a remedy for disaster.
- Trying to discuss anything when the other person won't cooperate or take the time to talk is a waste of time. If necessary make a date to talk.
- If the person keeps on delaying or avoiding conversation or discussion on issues that are important or significant to you, you may need to put it in writing and place it in their hands.
- Talking is good for closure of some issues. And, unless allowed, will create a wound that won't close.
- You can never truly waste your thoughts and words on the separated or departed. Life and thought continues.
- Romance doesn't just exist, you must make it happen. You must make a sincere effort to keep it alive to help your relationship flourish.
- Little things count, it doesn't have to be a dozen roses and champagne all the time.
- A favorite piece of candy in a pocket or a little note can mean a lot.
- Commit yourself to do something romantic every day.
- Show it. Demonstrate it. It's the accumulative total of all the little things that in end adds up to a super special love and romance.

TQ For Reading

Currently playing two diffrent soccer simulation games. Championship Manager (Eidos) and Football Manager (Sport Interactive). Actually, CM and FM is under one roof before. But maybe due to some minor (or maybe big) issue, they splited up! I've been playing this series since the Championship Manager 97/98. It was a very good game by then. Now playing with two diffrent (but almost the same) game make it a bit difficult. I am currently managing Man. Utd for both team. Can't tell the diffrent for now, but will tell you once i've finished playing with my season one, for both game! Hehe...

The last "joint" game (Eidos & SI) i'd played were CM2003/2004. It was a great game. It is still in my PC, haven't got time to removed it. Runs the game on three league namely England, Italy and Spain. I am managing Man. Utd (Off course lah), Aston Villa (to try my tactics) and Real Madrid (aslo testing). Won the EPL (now BPL) for 6th consecutive season with Man. UTD and yes, WITHOUT CHEATING!!! Put Aston Villa into a decent position for 4 season (3 - 6th placing) and winning the League Cup and the UEFA Cup. As for Real Madrid, manage to win the Spanish Primera Liga 4 times, the Kings Cup 2 Times. Always failed to land the Champions League. Hehehehe... Oh, Man. Utd won the CL three times...

That is for CM03/04. The last game i played before swithcing to FM08 and CM08. You might asked what happen CM/FM2005, 2006, 2007? Simple, i really don't have time to play those game. Hehehehwe... Lame excuse? Ya... Okay... will continue this story again!!!

... i have my very own wall paper by my gf. Hahahaha... this pic was taken inside the airplane, and i was on my way home from KL after attending my convocation way back in 2005. I can't remember how did she get this pic? Did i gave her? Oh, some info about the lyrics. It's a local song sung by Danny F. Malinggi and it it one of my favorite numbers. Hehehe... Anyway, she's a very talented and creative girl. That's the other reason why i love her. TQ For the wallpaper... You can view much more of her creative idea at http://www.kadusmusic.com/